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I am so very sorry to hear that you’re having a hard time, my love. Is there a trusted adult in your life that you can confide in and that you can ask to help you get the help you need?
I wish I could tell you the magic solution to all of your problems. I wish I could snap my fingers and make you love yourself, but it is a process. You are so incredibly strong and beautiful… you just don’t know it yet. Take a breath, hold up your head, and just keep moving. I believe in you, please please let me know if you need help with anything at all!
You are so very welcome. :) Thanks for making our day!
I LOVE IT! Let’s actually do this. What a great idea!
If you ever want to talk privately, come off of anon so we can have a conversation!
I get you. I promise. I’ve been there. Granted, I was never in your exact situation, so I can only empathize as best as I can. But as an ED survivor, I can honestly tell you that if you’re afraid this will spiral out of control, you need to take a step back and get some help. There is nothing wrong with trying to lead a healthy lifestyle, but if you fear an ED, try talking to a nutritionist and planning out a healthy, balanced meal plan for you. You are beautiful just the way you are.
xx Abby W.
Hi, anon. I really think that you need to go find a counselor and seek some professional help for your issues. Obviously our blog is not a good place for you if you feel like spreading hate. Thankfully, there’s a little “unfollow” button in the upper right-hand corner of our blog. If you want to put these nasty messages in our ask box, click that and go seek help.
Thanks and have a nice day.
This made my day!! You are wonderful and your message genuinely means the world to all of us. Stay strong. xo
We obviously don’t know the exact situation, but that big of an age difference is illegal. Please talk to a trusted adult in your life who is able to be present your life and observe the situation accurately. Remember that no significant other can define you. You are a beautiful human being. xoxox
Beauty-in-Life implies that we are trying to find the beauty in everything, the beauty in life. :) And no, we do not.
<3 I’m sending you so much love, girl. I need you to listen to yourself, okay? Listen to your gut. The most important thing is that you are in a GOOD relationship, one that benefits you. You do not need a boyfriend to make you beautiful, you know? Break up with him if you feel that’s what is best for you. Stay if you want to keep trying. But listen to yourself.
That is not selfish whatsoever! I honestly applaud you for listening to yourself and knowing what you were comfortable with. That is an ability that many people lack. You are wonderful and beautiful, and I am so proud of you for moving forward. xoxo
If you are having personal issues, you are more than welcome to come off of anon to have a private conversation. However, this is a public blog meant to empower women and men by taking the meaning of beauty away from the number that is on the scale.
That is a completely inappropriate question. Never ask someone that out of nowhere.